Why Letting Go Can Be Beneficial To Finding Freedom

Have you ever told someone to just let go and move on?

Letting go is part of life, but something we all battle with. Simpler said than done, it seems harder to learn how to start over than it does to let go. It can begin with letting things be and learning the lesson. Whether this is in relationships or situations. Unfortunately, to live a fulfilled life, letting go needs to be a detachment you need to manage. If you are to release the past and and become acquainted with the effects of relinquishing people and possessions through your life journey.

  • The emotions you encounter through this process are important, because you should never hate any person, phase or place you once were at.
  • Part of this change means you might lose security for a time, while you are flooded with feelings of shame or regret.
  • But, think about what you will lose out in the future – if you never venture beyond where you are right now.
  • And the possibilities and opportunites ahead for something better to discover beyond right now.

1| Let go of control

Learn how to take control of what you can control is significant. Otherwise you will spend time prioritising the wrong things. The greatest peace comes when you choose to stop figuring everything out and let stuff go. Breaking off that need to control is never easy. You may not be able to control someone else or a situation, but you can control your reactions and actions toward a situation.

In letting go of control – I have learned that this is something you need to do every single day, it’s not a once done never to be repeated exercise.

2| Let go of certainty

Releasing that feeling of uncertainty does not mean you need to be uncertain about everything. Rather, you embrace an openness and curiosity to every attempt at living through circumstances. Tackling every difficulty is a chance to evolve and grow. Often, we hold on and hang in those demeaning situations long past the signs that we should not.

You are stronger when you know you have to let go, and then make the choice to do it. When you do, keep moving forward without hesitating as you leap and try not to look back. The events of the past should not define you. Because, only you can make the choice of who you will become. Instead of allowing past hurts or disputes to drag you down.

In letting go of uncertainty – I have learned that if you wanted to be respected, you need to realise that you can survive without someone. You are not captive to your history and that includes all those deep and perceived hurts.

3| Let go of caution

We cannot avoid failing. The option of always choosing to be cautious might hold us back from ever living. The part you should hold onto is not that you should have done something, but you can do something new, by releasing and letting go. Forgetting the past is not easy at all, but forging ahead into the future takes courage and perception.

Resentment can keep us bound to someone we ought to have forgiven a long time ago. In letting go we are not dissolving the memories of the things we once knew. But are embracing compassion and the possibilities of newness if we don’t hold on to the baggage of past careers, friends and relationships.

In letting go of caution – I am learning that it can be simple, but it requires a conscious choice to correct one’s own misperceptions. We should not allow the world around us to move past and we remain stagnant. Alternatively it’s important to get rid of those old habits that prevent you from thriving and flourishing; if you are learn how to let go progressively and successively throughout life.

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What lessons can you learn from Moses about letting go?

Moses, a significant leaders in the Old Testament. Gave up fortune for faith. Although he became an influencer in history, he struggled to let the past go. The examples we note begin with His mother having to let go of Moses, so that his life would be saved. Moses learned how to let go as God removed him from the place of extensive wealth to reframe his perspective in the desert and wilderness.

Through letting go, he became a man of remarkable courage and prodigious knowledge. Authoring the Books of Law. Embracing his God-given calling and extraordinary legacy.

  • Practice is strategic to learning the lesson of how to let go that you will encounter throughout your life.
  • Adopt a calm composure as you endure the process of letting, to gain the capacity to embrace mixed emotions in every situation.
  • Move forward slowly. If you need to step back for a moment, pause. Then move on and smile even when you feel like you don’t want to.
  • Be prepared to constantly learn, throughout this lifetime. To love people and let go, and repeat this course again and again.
  • Trust God and accept what He has in store and the life He meant your to live while you let go of every unmet expectation you confront.

What responses do you require to help you let go?

If the life you wished for isn’t the life you have now. Orthe relationship you hoped to be in never happened. By reminiscing over the good old days, you will never allow God to open new doors of blessing and opportunity.

By letting go you allow God to restore and rebuild your confidence. And not mark you as a failure, but renew hope. To help you break free from disillusionment, mistakes and regret.

  • Exercise your generosity – to give things away that you love, as a gift to someone else. And as you do it helps you to understand the significance of how this relates to the bigger picture of letting go in your work, with your family and loved ones.
  • Notice the obstacles – these enable you to know which bridges to cross over or walk away from. This isn’t quitting, but simply allows you to focus on what is important. Then instead of making excuses, pursue measures to be more productive, efficient and effective. With the energy used in holding onto something that you should let go.
  • Interrupt yourself from judging a situation – when you become insightful and realise your actions, you can eliminate those negative emotions. And move towards positive responses.
  • Be mindful – by submitting to the situation and choosing to be mindful of now. You might not be able to alter the situation, but you can motivate yourself to move on, forgive and learn from the mistakes of the past as you progressively chase continuous positive acts that amount to long-term change.
  • Gain tactics to halt old attempts to try and control your environment – by overcoming negative emotions.
  • Forgive – letting go is linked with forgiveness and this is probably only when you can experience freedom and move away from your yesterday. I don’t think there will be less pain, but once your decision is made, you are taking responsibility for how control, certainty and caution will influence you.

Bible Verses about letting go

  1. Trust the Lord completely, and don’t depend on your own knowledge.  With every step you take, think about what he wants, and he will help you go the right way. Proverbs 3:5-6
  2. Give all your worries to him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7
  3. I say this because I know the plans that I have for you.” This message is from the Lord. “I have good plans for you. I don’t plan to hurt you. I plan to give you hope and a good future. Jeremiah 29:11
  4. So, don’t remember what happened in earlier times. Don’t think about what happened a long time ago, because I am doing something new! Now you will grow like a new plant. Surely you know this is true. I will even make a road in the desert, and rivers will flow through that dry land. Isaiah 43:18-19
  5. Keep your eyes on the path, and look straight ahead. Make sure you are going the right way, and nothing will make you fall. Don’t go to the right or to the left, and you will stay away from evil. Proverbs 4:25-27

Being practical is the answer to letting go of negative feelings, past relationships and stress

Letting go is unbelievably difficult. However, if you surrender every day with those worries you cling onto to God. Focus on God’s promises and pray. God can handle your struggles, even if you desperately attempt to hold onto the familiar. He sees your potential – what is limiting you and your capabilities. And that does not include your past. What He has is a vision for new adventures ahead and the door of new possibilities. Create space to learn and grow by acquiring new skills and activities. That reiginite your lost passions. And express your emotions through creativity like dancing, painting, playing a musical instrument or writing. With patience and time you will master how to let go with more successes and less regrets. Becoming wiser to the things you should allow yourself to get attached to and those you can let go of.


There are many questions like how and why, particularly when we struggle with holding on. Searching for what God says, in additon to acquiring practical ways are beneficial advances on the path to letting go of control, certainty and caution to find freedom.

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