How To Survive Uneasy Phases With Positive Choices

Do you feel like there are more challenges and downturns where you are struggling to survive?

We are living in a really apprehensive time in history. Every day I speak to people, the common thread in each conversation is echoed. How uncertain life feels; the open ended questions for the future and what next for so many people and their families. When we are constantly trying to survive uneasy phases. The starting point is making positive choices.

You may feel vulnerable but know the God of angel armies is with you. The enemy is close to hand swirling in and out of our day, trying to make us lose focus, get distracted, create divisions and negativity in families, friendships and church communities. And make us believe that nothing really matters.

We know from our silent struggles that we are in a spiritual battle with wicked forces and the supernatural Ephesians 6:12, and like a sensible soldier we need to protect ourselves, be equipped and ready every single day. The effectiveness of what we are fighting will be lost and irrelevant, if we begin to struggle against each other and not wrestle with the forces of darkness. In many ways the enemy is happy when we are at war with each other and not him.

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Additionally, we can totally miss the point and begin to nit-pick and find faults in others because we do not agree with their beliefs or values. Spinning around in a cloud of dust we scatter criticism and judgement, blitzing our lives of enthusiasm and energy. Turning our love to anger.

Although we are vulnerable, we need to become shrewd to the tactics of the enemy that are at play every day against us, to steal, kill and destroy our joy peace and laughter. You could fill in your own blanks of what you feel is being stolen or destroyed in your life at this time.

Momentarily, we might be psychologically and physically weak or vulnerable. From grappling or wrestling with issues caused by the global pandemic and the repercussions of lockdown and social isolation. Although COVID-19 may have become a common topic in the news headlines,. The huge concerns mirrored in communities globally, trace effects that might go unnoticed of this virus on people’s mental health and the ability to withstand pressures and stress.

God gives us a strong mind to cope and be on guard. 2 Corinthians 8:20 His aim is for us to live in awareness of how the enemy may seek to outwit us, and take advantage of our weaknesses. So that we are not uninformed or ignorant of his subtly evil plans, thoughts and purposes. If you are questioning whether God knows everything, think about this.

Why is it that God gives us these special abilities to do certain things best? It is that as God’s people we will be equipped to do better work for Him, building up the Church, the body of Christ, to a position of strength and maturity; (Ephesians 4:12)

In the middle of turmoil or a questionable future, we know God sees our potential, and chose us for His plan. He wants us to fulfil that purpose He created for us. Lately, the news highlights how so much can change from one day to the next. Despite this what we say and do right now can impact others with the light God places within us.

So that we are not overshadowed by the darkness of fear and the ways it might seem to control and overwhelm us. We can focus on God’s promises which have stood the test of time.

  • His promises breathe life.
  • His words sooth our soul.
  • His power calms our spirits.
  • His strength Give us power.

3 choices to survive uneasy phases

  1. Not to allow fear and anxiety to control your outlook on the future.

  2. Guard your heart against the tactics of the enemy.

  3. Refocus your mind on God’s truth (and the facts, not your feelings of apprehension) in the middle of uncertain times.

Although remaining with the familiar means we will still feel afraid, we can walk with the man of sorrows who never leaves us even for one second. Clearly we do not have any control of every situation, but we have assurance and faith in the one who does. Reality may outline that we don’t know what tomorrow holds, but we know who holds every tomorrow.

10 quotes to spark renewed possibility and handle negativity

  1. Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith. Henry Ward Beecher

  2. Worry is the antithesis of trust. You simply cannot do both. They are mutually exclusive. Elisabeth Elliot

  3. The beginning of anxiety is the end of faith, and the beginning of true faith is the end of anxiety. George Mueller

  4. As you walk through the valley of the unknown, you will find the footprints of Jesus both in front of you and beside you. Charles Stanley

  5. Our lives are full of supposes. Suppose this should happen, or suppose that should happen; what could we do; how could we bear it? But, if we are living in the high tower of the dwelling place of God, all these supposes will drop out of our lives. We shall be quiet from the fear of evil, for no threatenings of evil can penetrate into the high tower of God. Hannah Whittal Smith

  6. We must never despair; our situation has been compromising before, and it has changed for the better; so I trust it will again. If difficulties arise, we must put forth new exertion and proportion our efforts to the exigencies of the times. George Washington

  7. Just when the caterpillar thought the world was ending, he turned into a butterfly. Proverb

  8. Worry does nothing but steal your joy and keep you very busy doing nothing.  Unknown

  9. To change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions. Stephen R. Covey

  10. A positive attitude gives you power over your circumstances instead of your circumstances having power over you.  Joyce Meyer

6 Biblical ‘what to do when’ you face uneasy phases

  • When I get really afraid… I come to you in trust. (Psalm 56:3)
  • When I was upset and beside myself… you calmed me down and cheered me up. (Psalm 94:19)
  • When I am filled with fear… Light, space, zest— that’s God! So, with him on my side I’m fearless, afraid of no one and nothing. (Psalm 27:1)
  • When my troubles stack up… Pile your troubles on God’s shoulders— he’ll carry your load, he’ll help you out. (Psalm 55:22)
  • When I require a safe space… God is our refuge and strength, a tested help in times of trouble. (Psalm 46:1)
  • When I need help… God met me more than halfway, he freed me from my anxious fears. (Psalm 34:4)


These are reminders relevant to what you are facing today. They edge the way with hope and whisper optimistic promise. Granting us time to stop incessant thinking and compulsive worrying. Because the way you feel won’t last forever. And ultimately God places His peace in our hearts, unlike anything this world can offer. He doesn’t leave us – in the way we are used to being left – abandoned and bereft John 14:27 but He’s right there for you, He won’t let you down and He won’t leave you ever! Deuteronomy 31:8

Dig within and keep climbing, even when you cannot see a way. You will become stronger and grow through obstacles and adversity. And with God on your side, you will never be alone.

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Share your thoughts…

What helpful ways are you adopting to put your fears into perspective in unsettling and chaotic periods to survive uneasy phases with positive choices?

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  1. 5 August 2020 / 2:07 pm

    Great post, focused on the three choices as that is part of the key, we choose – thanks for the encouragement

  2. Ava
    5 August 2020 / 3:02 pm

    Thanks for reading Sharon!

  3. 11 August 2020 / 6:43 am

    I enjoyed this post. I am generally an anxious person, so I especially enjoyed the verses you shared for when we are feeling anxious. Especially uplifting during these stressful times we have been having lately!

  4. Teresa Hodge
    11 August 2020 / 9:31 pm

    “Incessant thinking and compulsive worrying” sums up what many are subjecting themselves to these days. But if our faith and hope is in Jesus, then we have nothing to fear! Thank you for this post and the comforting scriptures and encouraging quotes!

  5. 11 August 2020 / 10:09 pm

    How true! Nothing beats an anxious mind than fighting back with the sword of the Spirit which is the word of God.

  6. Ava
    12 August 2020 / 8:49 pm

    Absolutely putting on the armour is so key. Thanks for commenting!

  7. Ava
    12 August 2020 / 8:49 pm

    That is so true Teresa! Thanks for your feedback ?

  8. Ava
    12 August 2020 / 8:50 pm

    So glad you were uplifted. Have a great day?

  9. 13 August 2020 / 12:13 am

    Ava, great post filled with wonderful quotes and scripture. With Jesus we don’t have to just survive we can thrive!!

  10. Ava
    13 August 2020 / 9:00 am

    Yes we sure do Mary, thanks for your encouragement!

  11. 13 August 2020 / 5:27 pm

    Hi! Thank you so much for addressing handling difficult times and ways to cope. I love the Stephen Covey quote!

  12. Ava
    13 August 2020 / 7:55 pm

    I’m so glad, thanks for your feedback ?

  13. 15 August 2020 / 3:04 pm

    Handling difficult times proves our sense of resilience and reliance on God. There is no easy answers and with our faith in God, we are comforted. Thank you for sharing.

  14. Donna Miller
    15 August 2020 / 8:17 pm

    I love your writing Ava! I also agree God gives us a strong mind to cope and be on guard. I have to be super intentional to be aware of what is from God and what is from the enemy anymore. I really believe we are in the last days …

  15. Ava
    16 August 2020 / 3:25 pm

    Thanks for your feedback!

  16. Ava
    16 August 2020 / 3:26 pm

    Thanks Donna!! I totally agree ?

  17. 17 August 2020 / 1:10 am

    This is the most powerful post I’ve read by you yet, Ava. Jam-packed with Truth and encouragement. When we struggle in confusing times we can cling to God’s promises and stand unmovable on the Rock that is Christ.

  18. 17 August 2020 / 3:06 am

    Ava, this is a great post FULL of encouragement! I am saving those 10 quotes!!

  19. 17 August 2020 / 12:53 pm

    Thank you Ava for providing these scriptures to overcome our fears and anxiety. I also love the quotes. Will be using these scriptures throughout this week.

  20. jonisteinauer
    17 August 2020 / 3:58 pm

    This is something indefinitely still struggle with. Thank you for sharing some practical ways to deal with my anxiety. Blessings, Joni

  21. 17 August 2020 / 4:38 pm

    Great post! Over a decade ago, as a new mom, I made the decision to never be lead by fear in any aspect of life. It has been very freeing as long as I’m utilizing God’s power to free me to make positive choices. When I get too far separated from God’s companionship, I can even become fearful of being influenced by fear! But when I stay tucked in close, God grants peace even if I make the wrong choice.

  22. 17 August 2020 / 6:24 pm

    I used to really struggle with anxiety during hard times and transitions. Sometimes it tries to creep back in but I find giving it back to God and just praying, “God whatever happens be glorified in this” helps so much. It’s an immediate weight lifted.

  23. Ava
    17 August 2020 / 10:07 pm

    Thanks so much for your encouragement Summer!

  24. Ava
    17 August 2020 / 10:08 pm

    Thanks so much!

  25. Ava
    17 August 2020 / 10:08 pm

    God bless ? have a great week!

  26. Ava
    17 August 2020 / 10:09 pm

    Sounds so empowering Rachel, thanks for sharing!

  27. Ava
    17 August 2020 / 10:10 pm

    I agree Lo, that is the best tactic!

  28. 17 August 2020 / 11:11 pm

    Staying focused on God’s word and remember His character helps me to deal with my fear and worry.

  29. Ava
    18 August 2020 / 3:37 pm

    Thanks for sharing Mamie!

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