Enhance Your Self-Esteem Begins With Liking You

There is a simple truth, that when you begin to like who you are, every other relationship will be a success. Raising your confidence and how you view yourself. Those opinions that are embedded from as far back as childhood. From the signals we interpreted from others. And their expectations.

Definition of Self-Esteem [confidence in your own worth and abilities]

The most important step away from self-deprecation is to begin seeing how important what and how you think of yourself is. To recognise the causes of low self-esteem and then learn all the ways to build it up. When you respect yourself, you start thinking of yourself in positive ways. You still standing so set off and make this happen by doing the following.

  • Positively measure my value and worth through how God (His Word) sees me.
  • Begin by implementing a high opinion of yourself (not pride).
  • Realise who you are (be yourself).
  • Appreciate a few things about yourself and what you achieve each day.
  • Love yourself for you.
  • Never give up (simply take time to rest and start again).
  • Every step is small but will bring improved results (keep trying).

What Ways Can You Boost Self-Esteem…

  1. Learn how to reframe your thoughts by eliminating negative thinking and destructive self-talk. Stop complaining and start relaxing.
  2. Motivate yourself in a beneficial and healthy way by doing things you enjoy and like. Value your abilities, skills, talents and potential.
  3. Take time to reflect each day. Be grateful and kind to yourself by building a positive self-image. Loving yourself allows you to boost your self-morale and view the lighter side to life.
  4. Start to believe in yourself. Your abilities. Act with integrity and not perfection. Learn to be assertive.
  5. Manage mistakes and failures positively by not being hard on yourself but learning the lesson. Congratulate and praise yourself for accomplishments.
  6. Stop comparing yourself to others. Focus on making yourself the best you can be.
  7. Be kind to yourself. Spend time with positive, supportive uplifting people not toxic ones.

In time you won’t avoid challenges, or hide away from social events. Because you no longer believe the lies that you are ‘stupid’ or ‘not good enough’ or nobody cares’. And there is always help along the way. Psychological therapies that are beneficial and life impacting.


Don’t know where to start? Practice makes perfect and you only get one chance to be the best version of yourself! Now is the time to invest in you. You can find a better way to get through you break-up. Infuse every moment with beauty. Influence every God-given dream into your destiny. And impress your tomorrow with hope and expectancy. You don’t have to do this alone and I know exactly how you feel. But there is hope in your journey, To discover that the sky is the limit. And find an undying passion for living purposefully in the centre of God’s will!

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